No mystery here—dating can be a genuine torment. Nothing’s more nerve wracking than a first date, particularly with somebody you barely know. And keeping in mind that beyond any doubt, dates are intended to be an antecedent to a genuine relationship, first dates are likewise smaller than expected meetings masked as social outings, regardless of whether we jump at the chance to let it be known or not. That is the reason making sense of what to discuss ahead of time with a rundown of good first date questions and friendly exchanges is so essential.
The First 10 Minutes Question:
- What do you do, and how long have you been doing it?
- Where are you originally from?
- Where exactly do you live in [insert your city or town here]?
- Where did you go to school?
- What was your major?
After The First Drinks Arrive:
- What do you like to do when you’re not working?
- Have you traveled anywhere cool lately/do you have any trips coming up?
- Have you read any good books recently?
- Are you more of a TV person, or do you prefer movies?
- Depending on the above answer, ask what they’re watching, or what they’ve seen lately.
- What type of music are you into?
When Things Start To Get Comfortable Between The Two Of You:
- Do you have any nicknames?
- Do you have any siblings?
- Do you like your job? What do you want to do next?
- What’s your social life like? Do you have a big group of friends?
- Do you consider yourself career-driven?
- What are you most passionate about?
- When’s your birthday?
- If you could be any person for a day, who would it be?
- If you won the lottery tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d buy?
- Are you a cat person or a dog person?
- If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- What’s your biggest pet peeve?
- Coffee or tea?
- Where else would you consider living?
- What’s on your bucket list?
- Do you love to travel?
- Are you a morning person or a night person?
- Do you ever cook?
Last Minute Talk:
Last minute talks play a crucial role to make sure a second date can happen. If you think you like the person, don’t be afraid to let him or how know about how you feel.
- Can I split the check with you? Okay, can I least leave the tip?
- Did you like this place?
- Do you have any fun plans for the rest of the weekend?
- How is work looking for you this week?
- Do you have a busy week coming up?
- How are you getting home?
- There’s this cool bar I know around here, want to go grab a drink?
- Want to get coffee/dessert after this somewhere else?
- My friend’s actually having a party a few blocks away, do you want to stop by?